Now for the bad news/good news. I’ve been through just about all of the widely available male chastity devices on my “mission” to resolve this hubby fantasy. There’s only two kinds that will actually work and both of them are going to seem extreme. The first kind will involve a penis piercing of one type or another. I don’t recommend this to start unless it’s already a done deal. I personally am just thinking about possibly getting hubby’s junk pierced a certain way so that I can install a very specific custom made chastity device that looks like it will be easy or zero maintenance. I’ve still not decided and probably won’t for quite a while as the device is expensive and the piercing is specific. Okay so what’s the other kind. Well get ready for it, sit down. The only other male chastity device that actually works — as in enforces chastity and will not come off is one with a stiff steel/metal urethral tube that extends at least inside (preferably behind) the ring when everything is assembled and in place. Yes it sounds and looks extreme. Turns out it’s really not. There’s a couple of days getting used to the feeling on your males partner’s part. He will have to really get used to taking a pee a couple of times but pretty much smooth sailing after that. As an added bonus it actually seems to reduce hubby’s willingness and ability to push against the chastity device when installed. I noticed this the very first day I finally went that direction. This was the answer and the first device I chose lasted almost a year once I got the ring size right. Hubby’s now in a a chastity device that’s shorter (about an inch maybe a little tiny bit more from the tip of it to the ring when assembled, it also has a strait steel urethral tube that’s about 2 inches, maybe a little more.) Enforced male chastity began as a corrective of masculine misbehavior. Mistress Owners dole out orgasms as rewards. For being satisfactory servants, men earned brief release from their MCDs (Male Chastity Devices). On the male side, we learned that we can cure an erection by masturbating. If a date didn’t result in ejaculation, jerking off when we got home could take care of it. Obviously it felt way better if the girl did it. We believed that if a girl made us get hard, she should cure the swelling. Apparently, girls bought into this and if they weren’t prepared for heavy petting or more, they restricted interaction to less arousing activities. Written for Mistress Terra to be read out for her OnlyFans account as more of a script. The dialogue sections are marked in bold.

Male Chastity Enforcement. A Brief Guide To Male Chastity

The passing of physical and mental control is a stimulation like no other in this dynamic, shifting from 'chastity game' to something more serious, possibly over months or even years. And it's that forfeit of control that is just so alluring about it isn't it? She teases and has some very sexy household wear but more than that at age 70 plus I have come to enjoy the “horny 20 year old feeling”. A lot of males will insist this is not really an orgasm and they are as horny after having one as they were before it happened. Mentally this may be true, but physically it isn’t. One of the key contributors to feeling horny for males is the need to ejaculate. Physically and psychologically, ejaculation is the objective of orgasm. Mrs. Lion has given me quite a few ruined orgasms. They do not feel very good. I don’t like the sensation at all. But I can also feel that they do “reset” some of the urgency I was feeling before I ejaculated. This is true of all males. Some may insist it isn’t true, but physiologically it is. At first she was very much thinking on the lines of this being weird and perverted. Then after trying it a few times those feelings mostly faded but I sensed she felt guilty often. I spent time reassuring her that I loved every second of this. Now, she seems to be having genuine fun for the most part. I sense an occasional feeling of guilt and we recently went over two weeks without me being caged with little to no discussion of it. Possibly due to things getting busy or maybe she just didn’t want to play for a bit. I behaved myself during this time although I have to admit it was more difficult to resist temptation being uncaged. It was also much more difficult to keep my focus on her instead of myself.After a period of every day for four hours jump it up to 8 hours or a bit longer. This is a big deal at this point. It should also be every day. The reason this is a big jump is typically this absolutely will cover a work day. A real routine day where the device is on in public during normal work and out and about routines. Remember this building up is EVERY DAY with no breaks. Again the goal is reducing constant that chastity device awareness. After a week or so of this routine it’s not only dulling that awareness but also conditioning the body to not constantly fight the chastity device. During this period there’s a good chance that you’ll need to use a smaller device, smaller ring, smaller. Not sure? Go smaller. Go as small as can possibly be MADE to fit as long as nothing is turning colors. This all boils down to the simple fact that interactive sex must end with male ejaculation. There is no such rule for the woman. Women’s lib has made us more aware of a woman’s needs, but the absolute rule is ejaculation. Female orgasm is a nice addition. Women who own men rarely have reason to marry them. Among Femdomly's younger couples, chastity devices and keys are the closest matches to wedding rings. External Links - How to Cage Your Man | Picture Guide | Sarah Jameson | Elise Sutton | Rebecca Lawson | FLR

Chastity Beach Chastity Beach

Once your man has become a bit used to chastity, and perhaps even to his regular schedule of releases, it is a good idea to take them away on a whim, either here and there or even as often as you like. It helps to keep firm in your man's mind that chastity and release aren't about simple reward and punishment. Chastity is about giving you everything that you want, sacrificing simply for your happiness, and putting you in the driver seat of every aspect of your relationship that you choose. Release dates are only guide posts, you are the leader. Tease him any way you want. The objective is to get him close to orgasm without letting him get release. Getting him very aroused is just as good as bringing him right to the edge. While he may think it is for his fun, your real objective is to keep those hormones flowing and reminding his body of what it is missing. You can do this over and over as many times as you want. If you keep it up long enough, he will actually lose the ability to come for a while. Just remember, no orgasms until his release date! Suggest that after a few weeks you sit down and discuss how things are going. If she expresses concern that her sexual needs won’t be met, you can let her know that your mouth and fingers are always available to her. That’s it. Simple, and easy to follow. This isn’t necessarily the way it’s going to be forever. It’s a starting point. Like anything else that’s worthwhile, it takes time and effort to make it work. And let's sidestep the idea of 'self enforced' for now, as that strictly speaking isn't enforced or at least to the same degree. We'll keep it on point in discussing enforced chastity with a keyholder. An ultimate expression of your power is to replace his scheduled orgasm with a ruined one. This is very frustrating to the male and will imprint strongly that you, in fact, own his pleasure. Since ruined orgasms do reset his physical need for orgasm, if not his mental one, they should not be intentionally given before his scheduled release date.

The answer to the second question is more complex. The short answer is yes, absolutely the longer you go at a time the more it will benefit you both. The long answer is it absolutely depends on the nature of your relationship, your progress into chastity control, his experience level, and of course his expectations based on what you have agreed to. It is, after all, important for you to live up to your end if you expect your man to live up to his. Regardless of his state of waiting, feel free to have him provide you with sexual attention whenever you want. But, don’t let him push you into getting more attention than you desire. A lot of males will try to deal with their frustration by convincing their keyholders to orgasm frequently. Take sex from him when you want, not when he wants. Nevertheless, at last, I found a fun use for my hard penis. Rub it like a magic lamp and I got a giant blast of pleasure. Sex with my own hand was all I knew until my late teens. I went to a boys boarding school for my high school years. I didn’t date. I worked every summer. Sex with another person had to wait until I entered college. A bit of advice to sub-males and more so female key holders that are curious about long term chastity enforcement. How does one get there? Where do you start? What works? What doesn’t? I have to deal with a neurological problem with my heart rhythm so the pharmaceutical treatments that are out there ( i.e Viagra, Levitra, Cealis) might be lethal to me.

Sex And Enforced Chastity - Male Chastity Journal

chastity/ˈtʃastɪti/nounthe state or practice of refraining from extramarital, or especially from all, sexual intercourse. Giving men orgasms is close to paying for service. Women owe men nothing. The lesser gender owes womankind thankfulness for permission to serve and worship.I do not receive any devices I use of have used for free. I do not get paid for promotion. My experience with male chastity enforcement devices comes completely from the point of a total “newb” and hard learned knowledge through the long process of implementing a chastity enforcement lifestyle within my own relationship and then through helping others do the same on their own terms. One thing that became quite clear is there’s a huge difference between male chastity devices that are appropriate for real enforcement and those that are just sex-toys meant for a bit of fun. Surprise Number One My own journey down the road of lifestyle male chastity enforcement is nowhere near complete. I do have some degree of expertise now that I’ve implemented chastity enforcement with my own partner and helped to varying degrees of involvement with other couple’s relationships in that perspective. I’ve noticed enough of a pattern to describe the general properties how long-term male chastity enforcement will manifest in terms of sexual satisfaction on the female’s end as well as the male’s end of things. Some women enjoy playing chastity games with their men, without his agreeing to give them the final say. This is fine for some, but not for a truly female led relationship. To experience the real benefits of chastity, he must agree to give you full control. If your man truly cares more for your happiness than his own, he should be glad for the opportunity to prove his devotion and love to you. You should probably consider taking a serious reappraisal of a man who would rather have selfish orgasms than put you first and become a better person under your leadership. If you want him to take pleasing you seriously, chastity release has to be entirely your decision. Duration ranged from one or more weeks to months. Were a man insolent or tardy, Mistress would cancel or postpone his orgasm. This is one of my favorite articles of yours because it seems to ring true for what I’m seeing my wife and I are experiencing.